Americans Are Losing Places to Hang Out as Bowling Alleys, Libraries, Restaurants, and Movie Theaters Become Too Costly to Stay Open

Bars, bowling alleys, restaurants, and movie theaters are vanishing from American communities, and the people who used to fill them are left with nowhere to go. The Bureau of Labor Statistics has tracked business establishments by county since 1990, and its numbers tell a stark story: the U.S. has lost a fifth of its movie theaters and nearly a third of its bowling alleys since 2001. The places where people once gathered without an agenda are quietly closing their doors.

A 2025 study backs up the pattern nationwide. Researchers tracked 12 categories of what sociologists call third places, including coffee shops, libraries, museums, recreation centers and restaurants, and found closures across every single category between 2019 and 2021. The losses hit hardest in rural areas and in communities with larger Black, Hispanic and less-educated populations, according to the research. Even the categories that seem stable, like libraries, are shrinking.

It’s more than disappearance. The places still standing cost more to walk into than they used to. Jessica Finlay, an assistant professor of geography at the University of Colorado Boulder and one of the study’s researchers, says affordability is central to the crisis. Cost of living keeps climbing, and gentrification is pricing out the very people who used to be regulars. The pool of people who can still afford to belong somewhere keeps shrinking.

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Food Costs Are Up 38%, and Rent Is Crushing the Businesses That Are Left

Running a restaurant has gotten brutally expensive. Food costs have climbed 38%, and labor costs 35% since 2019, while menu prices are up 31% since 2020. Despite charging more, 45% of restaurant operators say they weren’t even profitable in 2025. The math simply doesn’t work for a lot of owners anymore, and the numbers keep getting worse instead of better every year that passes.

Bars are getting squeezed from a different direction entirely. Liquor liability premiums have jumped anywhere from 25% to 40% in some regions, adding a new layer of cost on top of rent, staffing, and inventory. For a small neighborhood bar operating on thin margins already, an insurance hike like that can be the difference between staying open and shutting down for good.

Movie theaters face their own version of this squeeze, this time from real estate. AMC alone carries more than $400 million in annual interest expense and $850 million in rent, a capital structure S&P Global Ratings has called unsustainable even as attendance recovers. When Cineworld filed for bankruptcy, the company cited rent increases of nearly 30% per theater over just three years.

Losing These Spaces Carries the Same Health Risk as Smoking, Researchers Say

The price of simply showing up has become its own barrier. Julianne Holt-Lunstad, a psychology and neuroscience professor at Brigham Young University, described her son’s experience trying to make friends after moving to San Francisco. A group dinner ended with the bill split evenly, and he still left hungry. It cost him $90, and he told his mother he was too stressed about the money to actually enjoy himself.

Sometimes a gathering spot survives but stops functioning as one. Finlay calls this a disamenity: a place that should support well-being but doesn’t, whether because there’s nowhere to sit, a parking lot too hot to cross, or a design meant to keep people from lingering. Benches get removed so no one can loiter. Tunnels get sealed so no one can shelter there. A public bathroom in New York was even handed back to the city once a business district couldn’t afford to maintain it.

The health consequences are not abstract. Holt-Lunstad led a meta-analysis of 148 studies tracking millions of people, finding that chronic loneliness carries a mortality risk comparable to smoking 15 cigarettes a day. The U.S. Surgeon General’s 2023 advisory on loneliness, which Holt-Lunstad helped write, found that socially disconnected people face up to a 29% higher risk of premature death. Researchers say the loneliness epidemic costs the U.S. economy $406 billion a year.

Gen Z Is Paying $189 a Date, So the Movies Are Winning by Default

One kind of outing has held on despite everything: the movies. Fortune has reported that the average cost of a single date has climbed to $189, up more than 12% in a year, with nearly half of single Americans now saying dating isn’t financially worth it. Some are opting out of dating altogether in a trend dubbed solo-maxxing. A movie ticket, even at $30, still costs far less than a group dinner that splits four ways.

The bigger reason may not be about price at all. In a study with Eventbrite, Holt-Lunstad found the gatherings most likely to build real connection are interactive ones like dancing or roller skating. A movie sits at the opposite end of that scale, and for a first date, that passivity is the point. Two hours of sitting quietly gives people something to talk about afterward, without any pressure to fill the silence during.

What’s disappearing goes beyond convenience. Finlay says certain social infrastructure sites are pivotal to developing hope, while plenty of others are actively diminishing it. Every bowling alley, library, and diner that closes removes a small, unglamorous place where a stranger could become familiar simply by showing up often enough. That kind of everyday contact built entire communities for generations, and its absence is now measurable in dollars, in mortality risk, and in how alone people feel walking down their own street.